Honestly…. this may be a boring post. Because… so far… 4-weeks in… having pierced nipples have been nothing exciting.
So to beef this up and tell you why it’s boring now…
i will go back to the actual piercing day.
i was super excited AND nervous. Allowing a needle and jewelry to pierce through one of the most sensitive areas on my body seemed like a dumb idea! But the look of pierced nips has always been attractive to me, and especially to Sir! He’s asked me for about 5 years now to do it. And it was a hard-limit, solid N-O! Until this year.
To be honest, i am not completely sure what made me move from Hard-NO to Hell-Yea. But. Here we are.
So a month ago, by myself, with Sir’s approval, i went to get them pierced.
i had several people offer to go with me, including Sir, but the piercing place doesn’t allow anyone to go inside unless you are getting pierced (due to COVID). So no friends, family, moral support allowed. And i wanted to do this by myself really anyway, so it worked.
So off i went. And it took a longgggg time too. i seriously almost chickened out. But i’m glad… NOW anyway... that i did it!
The piercing guy asked a lot of questions, i think to confirm: 1) i was consenting, 2) i was not drunk, 3) i knew what to expect.
i took down my dress top, he marked my nips with a marker, cleaned with alcohol, and said, “take a deep breath in….. and now let it out.”
And on the “out,” the needle pressed sharply in and all the way through my nipple. It was swift and sharp. Tears came to my eyes, but i knew it was over. At least for the first one anyway.
Then he repeated the process for the next one. He even said, “your brain knows what to expect, so this one will hurt more. But let’s ride the adrenaline high and get this done quick.”
And then there was a breath in and out and it was done again. He was definitely right! My brain figured it out in a hurry!
But i dressed, learned how to clean them, paid, and left.
The pain was intense but lasted for about 5-minutes. While the intense pain didn’t last, they were pretty tender and aggravated. Then negotiating the seatbelt was the first real challenge! It had to sit down right between them and not bother either of them. That’s still a bit of a continual challenge really, but it is getting better!
By the time i got home, they were swollen and throbbing. i think they were just mad at me. So i took ibuprofen and went to sleep. The next day they were really tender but not in pain.
Each day they feel better and better.
According to the piercer, they will take a full 2-months of heal, which means…… NO TOUCHING. Except to clean them. That’s it. (One of my girlfriends say it will take 6-months to heal… Lord, i pray not!)
So Sir hasn’t gotten to touch, play, lick, pull, twist, or any other thing to them… and all he gets to do is gaze upon them.
i have noticed though that no bra is better than a bra on. the bra on was smashing them against my chest and whenever i moved around, they rubbed up against the fabric and got irritated. So while Sir doesn’t want me to wear a bra anyway, this month i have seriously embraced that look! Which is allowing him to gaze, fairly easily (overall) now too.
i did think you’d be able to see the barbell and the nip show through the clothing… meaning 3-bumps on each side for the onlooker. But actually, you can’t see the barbell through any clothes at all. And i have chosen clothing-appropriate attire for work too, of course.
Sleeping has been a bit of a challenge. My right one seems to be heeling well but the left is a lot more sensitive. The left seems like it will take more than 2-months at the rate we are going right now. And when i sleep, naturally, i roll right onto my left side and there is a pain that shoots through it and wakes me up.
i have been ultra careful to ensure no accidental bumping anything has happened…… including Sir’s chest for a bear hug. i do LOVE his arms around me. And that has NOT happened. (Sigh!)
So we have another month to go… and then maybe i can give you a rip-roaring-exciting report about my nips getting a LOT of deserved attention. Or maybe not. We shall see if the healing process goes according to schedule. i pray it does. i am ready to be touched there again!
But other than that… i don’t “feel” the piercings at all. It’s just become apart of my body and kinda like wearing clothing. You don’t “feel” it after awhile.
[And next up……Sir has approved my clit hood getting pierced…. that will take one week to heal though. But still, i have to wait til the nips totally heal. Can’t have everything off limits at the same time!]
So lastly… i’ll talk about how it feels to be submissive….. tomorrow. On a Friday = Maintenance Day.