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30-days of Submission : My Submissiveness

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i like this list. i got this list from #inferiorslut blog. And i challenge myself to blog these topics for 30-days, and if you so wish to join, please do the same!


DAY 1: YOU…Dominant, submissive or switch? List the parts of BDSM that get your juices flowing, what interests you the most? Basically define your kinky nature.


DAY 2 : YOUR KINKS…List your Kinks. Describes what it is about being Dominant or submissive that excites and arouses you the most.


DAY 3 : DISCOVERIES…How did you discover that you were kinky?

DAY 4 : CLUES…Write about any early experiences that, in retrospect, hinted at your kinks.

DAY 5 : YOUR FIRST TIME…What was you first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t yet had that first time write about what you hope to have happen.

DAY 6 : FANTASIES…Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.

DAY 7 : YOUR TOYBOX…What’s your favourite toy or item of equipment?

DAY 8 : LOOK!Post a kinky image you find erotic. Briefly describe what arouses you most in the image.

DAY 9 : LISTEN…Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy. Describe why it works for you.

DAY 10: HOW FAR…What are your hard limits?


Day 11: WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT…What are your views on the ethics of kink?


Day 12: “I THOUGHT YOU HAD THE KEYS…”Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

Day 13: KINK APPEAL…Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?


Day 14: REAL-LIFE BDSM…How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?


DAY 15: “I WOULD LIKE TO…”Write about a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.


DAY 16: DIFFICULTIES…What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?


DAY 17: “IT’S NOT LIKE THAT …”What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?


DAY 18: PET HATES…Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? Any thing you particularly dislike or that annoys you? If so, what are they?


DAY 19: LIFE CHANGING…Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they?


DAY 20: KINK CURIOUS…Talk about something within kink/BDSM that you’re curious about or don’t understand.


Day 21: KINK BOOKS…List your Favourite BDSM related book/s (fiction or non-fiction).


DAY 22: RELATIONSHIPS…What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?


DAY 23: PERSPECTIVES…Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? If so, how?


DAY 24: PARTNERS…What qualities do you look for in a partner?


DAY 25: “ACTUALLY, I’M IN TO…”How open are you about your kinks?


DAY 26: SPANKING THE MOUSE…What’s your opinion on online BDSM play? Or online D/s Relationships?


DAY 27: “LICK MY STAMPS! YOU WORM!…”Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?


DAY 28: “CORSET DOES…”How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?


DAY 29: “MY NAME IS…”Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?


DAY 30: FREE TIME…Write or create a list of whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to

55 – Deeper submission

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“Deeper” submission…. get the pun??!?! ….in more ways that one…. deep in my ass and my mind!

Yesterday’s maintenance session was intense. My ass is bruised today, especially on my right side.

As we were laying in bed, David said….

Him: “I decided to see how long you could handle being spanked in just one spot. Did you notice that I concentrated primarily on just your right ass cheek?”

Me: oh YES Sir i did! i may not have called yellow when i did if you’d moved around a bit more than you did.

Him: no words….just gave me the biggest grin!

Today….. i feel like the session served it’s purpose. My ass is bruised and still sore. But i am content, relaxed, and loving my Sir more than i did yesterday even.

For those that think, “how can a spanking (bruises) cause you to want more?”… well, it’s a bit hard to expexplain, but i will try….

By submitting myself to Sir, it is an intentional show of my love. It shows that i trust him fully with my physical being, my life, and our family. And he knows and respects that it is INTENTIONAL that i’ve chosen to commit myself thoroughly to him, and ultimately he does the same in reverse.

i love the bond that only we know about. My family and friends think i am a stereo-typical, average middle-aged woman, with a suburban life, middle-class, (overall) conservative life. And they ARE right. Mostly.

There’s just more than meets the eye. In fact, much of it is hidden underneath clothing … like bruises and plugs… which brings me to the deeper submission part of this….

Today we implemented a new rule. One that i came up with after reading other blogs here and being inspired, and he thought was perfect for us.

It is:

What he puts in (or tells me to put in), shall not come out without permission and/or only by his hand. And there’s to be NO whining, begging, pleading, or bartering otherwise. In fact, i shouldn’t even mention it or remind him either. i am to trust that he won’t forget or neglect me, and further trust that he is in control and knows what’s best.

So with that …. he put in a metal plug that has a purple jeweled end, his favorite color. Then he stood me upright, planted a warm kiss on me, squeezed my (sore!) ass, and went to play golf.

i have no real idea how long it will stay in, but i know – without a doubt or question in my mind – it WILL stay in until he gives me permission to take it out or tells me to bend over and does it himself.

A constant reminder today that i am his. And my life couldn’t be better!