i like this list. i got this list from #inferiorslut blog. And i challenge myself to blog these topics for 30-days, and if you so wish to join, please do the same!
DAY 1: YOU…Dominant, submissive or switch? List the parts of BDSM that get your juices flowing, what interests you the most? Basically define your kinky nature.
DAY 2 : YOUR KINKS…List your Kinks. Describes what it is about being Dominant or submissive that excites and arouses you the most.
DAY 3 : DISCOVERIES…How did you discover that you were kinky?
DAY 4 : CLUES…Write about any early experiences that, in retrospect, hinted at your kinks.
DAY 5 : YOUR FIRST TIME…What was you first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t yet had that first time write about what you hope to have happen.
DAY 6 : FANTASIES…Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.
DAY 7 : YOUR TOYBOX…What’s your favourite toy or item of equipment?
DAY 8 : LOOK!Post a kinky image you find erotic. Briefly describe what arouses you most in the image.
DAY 9 : LISTEN…Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy. Describe why it works for you.
DAY 10: HOW FAR…What are your hard limits?
Day 11: WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT…What are your views on the ethics of kink?
Day 12: “I THOUGHT YOU HAD THE KEYS…”Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.
Day 13: KINK APPEAL…Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?
Day 14: REAL-LIFE BDSM…How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?
DAY 15: “I WOULD LIKE TO…”Write about a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try.
DAY 16: DIFFICULTIES…What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?
DAY 17: “IT’S NOT LIKE THAT …”What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?
DAY 18: PET HATES…Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? Any thing you particularly dislike or that annoys you? If so, what are they?
DAY 19: LIFE CHANGING…Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they?
DAY 20: KINK CURIOUS…Talk about something within kink/BDSM that you’re curious about or don’t understand.
Day 21: KINK BOOKS…List your Favourite BDSM related book/s (fiction or non-fiction).
DAY 22: RELATIONSHIPS…What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?
DAY 23: PERSPECTIVES…Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? If so, how?
DAY 24: PARTNERS…What qualities do you look for in a partner?
DAY 25: “ACTUALLY, I’M IN TO…”How open are you about your kinks?
DAY 26: SPANKING THE MOUSE…What’s your opinion on online BDSM play? Or online D/s Relationships?
DAY 27: “LICK MY STAMPS! YOU WORM!…”Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?
DAY 28: “CORSET DOES…”How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?
DAY 29: “MY NAME IS…”Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of titles in general?
DAY 30: FREE TIME…Write or create a list of whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to.