i have been married to David for 17 years. And we only recently found DD and implemented it into our marriage and life.
Hi! i am Marie.
This is my Home page to my (mostly) blog site about my Married Domestic Disciplined (“DD”) Life.
What is Domestic Discipline (or “DD”)? Well, it is about having consequences to negative actions. It is about allowing David to discipline me, including spanking, when it is deemed necessary.
When is discipline between a husband and a wife necessary? In short, it is when i don’t submit to David. We have agreed that every family should have ONE head of household. And for us and for our Christian life, we believe that God made and designed men to lead and women to submit (and yes…) and obey.
Submit and obey? YES! We do believe in Christ. And we try to follow the Bible’s instructions. It clearly indicates women should SUBMIT and obey. And for us, this works. We understand it might not work for all, but it does for us.
WHY would you do that? Our relationship was struggling. We had “too many Chiefs and not enough Indians” or “too many cooks in the kitchen”. Pick whatever phrase you want. But basically, every good organization (even governments, sports teams, successful businesses) has but ONE leader. And i’ve chosen to let my husband be that leader for our family.
Okay, but why is Discipline necessary? Frankly speaking, it may not be. But just like any “rule” in life, there has to be consequences for breaking it. If you run a red light, you have to be prepared to get the ticket from the officer or worse, be in an accident that damages you, your vehicle, or another.
So we have found that allowing David to be in control, set the rules, and discipline (me) for noncompliance as he sees fit, WORKS for us.
So without further ado…. read the blog, follow the blog, email me if you want, and give me feedback. (If you disagree, I’m okay with that, as long as respect is still displayed).